living with chronic pain in the hoo-ha
I know the feeling.. I date but keep a wall up out of fear :(
I'm sorry to hear that. But I'm glad you said it. It's good to know others have issues with dating that result from pelvic pain. A lot of people in the Facebook groups for pelvic pain / vulvodynia / pudendal neuralgia are married or attached in some way, and it's hard for me to imagine sometimes. At least some of them developed the problem after entering their relationships... kicking myself a little, or whatever, whatever feeling this is -- that I didn't find someone to be with before this all started. I'd feel so much less alone, and I wouldn't have this huge obstacle to surmount in order to find someone to be with.